# How to choose an engagement ring and how much to spend

> How to choose an engagement ring: style, size, metal, stone and budget; the salary rule is a myth and what to look at so you do not overpay.

- Source: https://www.711grados.com/en/how-to-choose-an-engagement-ring/
- Language: en
- Note: This entry was drafted with the help of AI and is pending review by the author.
- Published: 2026-07-30
- Updated: 2026-07-30
- Translation (es): https://www.711grados.com/es/como-elegir-un-anillo-de-compromiso/
- Author: Sandra Sánchez
- Site: 711 Grados (https://www.711grados.com/)

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An engagement ring is a personal choice. These guidelines help you decide calmly, without pressure and without overspending.

## Start with style

Notice which jewelry they usually wear: yellow, white or rose gold, classic or modern lines, big or discreet stones. If you can, ask a friend or relative for help.

## Size

Find out the size discreetly (for example, by measuring another ring of theirs). See the guide to [finding your ring size](https://www.711grados.com/en/how-to-find-your-ring-size/). Resizing in the workshop is common.

## Stone and metal

Diamond is the classic, but there are also sapphires, emeralds and [moissanite](https://www.711grados.com/en/moissanite/). For the metal, [14 or 18K gold](https://www.711grados.com/en/14k-vs-18k-gold/) and platinum are the most common. For a diamond, look at the [4Cs](https://www.711grados.com/en/diamond-4cs-cut-color-clarity-carat/) and consider [lab-grown or natural](https://www.711grados.com/en/lab-grown-vs-natural-diamonds/).

## How much to spend

There is no correct amount. The idea of spending two or three months' salary is a myth popularized by advertising. Spend what your situation allows without going into debt, and consider insurance.

## Buying with a guarantee

Buy from trusted jewelers, ask for the stone's certificate and the invoice, and check the return and resizing policy.

## See also

- [The 4Cs of diamonds: cut, color, clarity and carat](https://www.711grados.com/en/diamond-4cs-cut-color-clarity-carat/)
- [Lab-grown or natural diamond: differences, price and which to choose](https://www.711grados.com/en/lab-grown-vs-natural-diamonds/)
- [How to find your ring size (with conversion chart)](https://www.711grados.com/en/how-to-find-your-ring-size/)
- [Ring](https://www.711grados.com/en/ring/)